The tradition of bidding farewell is as old as human civilization itself. Originally, it stemmed from the human need to express emotions at the departure of a loved one or an acquaintance, especially in uncanny contexts such as war, migration, or voyages.
Birthed in various cultures, these practices manifest in a range of ceremonies – from simple goodbye hugs to elaborate rites. For example, in ancient Rome, they had rituals called ‘Valedictio’, where they celebrated before parting for war or long journeys. Song, dance, and wine were key elements of these rituals.
Over time, this custom evolved and wrapped itself into different fabrics of society. Farewells started marking the end of educational chapters, career milestones, and sporting events. Graduation ceremonies, retirement parties, send-offs are all modern adaptations of the ancient practice of bidding adieu.
One notable example is the Japanese farewell party, ‘Sotsuron’. Here, those departing drink from the same sake cup, signifying shared experiences and emotions. This unique tradition has been celebrated since the Edo period!
The art of farewell has also etched itself into literature, music, and cinema. Shakespeare’s ‘Parting is such sweet sorrow’ to The Sound of Music’s ‘So long, farewell’ are all testaments to the human fascination with goodbyes.
From an emotional rut to now a celebration, farewells reflect our growth in handling separations. Despite the tinge of sadness, they now focus on positive closure, anticipation of new beginnings and embracing changes. After all, isn’t change the only constant?